We get this question A LOT: "How do we nicely say "no kids" on our wedding invitations?" Our advice: You spread the information via word-of-mouth. Guests will talk with one another and if you have any close friends or relatives who do have kids, you can say "Please get a sitter" which will result in them helping spread the word.
There are also subtle ways you can "hint" at no children. The first would be to address your invitation envelope to only the family members you are inviting. So, for instance, don't write "The Smith Family." You would only write "Mr. and Mrs. Smith". Better yet, if you are having a more casual affair then you could address your invitation to say "John and Nancy Smith" and make no mention of the children's names.
If you think that your guests won't pick up on these hints, then you can say "Adult only reception". Etiquette is split on this advice. Some say that it is inappropriate to add information such as this. Others say, it is okay but not strongly recommended. And, you will find a few "wedding experts" that will tell you "of course you can put that on your invitation." Now that we have explained the etiquette side of things and made it clear as mud as to what you should do, know that some feelings will be hurt. Some parents will be sad that you don't want their children included on your wedding day. But, remember, this day isn't about their children. It is about you and the future you and your partner will promise to make. Furthermore, I bet that many parents will look forward to a fun event away from the kids.
Let the celebration begin!
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